When I first started hooking up with guys I was literally stuck cruising parks, bookstores, and bathhouses - the big three. If you wanted to find a quick hook up these places were literally the only places where you stood a chance of getting a quick fuck. I was never into the bar scene except for when I was in college and the few years after where I loved going to the dance clubs. However I rarely hooked up with guys from the bars, but instead just had fun socializing with friends, dancing, and having a genuinely good old fashion good time. I'd say goodbye to my friends at last call and head home...or so they thought. Instead I'd go in search of trouble, and more often then not I'd be wandering around in moonlit bushes, cruising dark hallways in the backrooms of book stores, and generally searching for other guys like me where I knew I would find them. I wouldn't go home until my hole had been fucked, and fucked over as many times if possible.
Over the years I've waned off of parks and cruisy spots, and I currently don't live anywhere near a bathhouse. However thanks to some really smart guys (and gals) coming up with amazing technology there are newer, and easier, ways for guys like me to hook up with other pigs. The Internet has definitely been the biggest change, but the most recent and one that I am still getting somewhat used to are the mobile apps.
I usually play at my place, or when I'm traveling I connect out of my hotel. I rarely will connect with guys at their place. Call me lazy, but so far I've found that many guys have no problem wanting to come to my place. I know many guys need a place to play so I don't feel guilty about them coming to me. But lately, within the past year as far as I can tell, the new mobile sex apps have started to pop up everywhere. I'm sure most guys know what these are, but if not they are programs that you can download on your smart phone that have the capability for you to log onto your favorite hookup site while you are out getting groceries, washing the car, stopping off at the gym... you get the picture. I'm not an expert at these things but they definitely have opened up a universe of men who otherwise may not have been able to fuck around, or needed to fuck around on a tight schedule.
Most of the connect sites now have a way where you can tell if someone is sending you a message from their phone - usually a little icon of a phone next to their message, go figure. When I see these I usually reach out to them with a little more interest knowing that there is a good chance they are looking and probably need to have a place to play. I've even received messages from guys who were just driving around looking for guys nearby and searching via the new GPS location software on their phones.
Another of the fucks that I got in Ft. Lauderdale was a guy just like this. As he described in his message he was on his lunch break, which actually was early evening as he worked the evening shift apparently. He already knew exactly where I was due to my profile description and he was texting me while driving around. He only had a few minutes and after a quick couple of exchanges he said he was on his way.